So you've fallen in love.
You feel a need to be with that person every single day, and you want to spend every waking minute with him or her.
But for some reason, there's something pulling you away from that person, and you know it's not an external force. You feel like you are holding yourself back.
It feels like your brain is keeping you from fulfilling the wishes of your heart.
Believe it or not, a lot of humans go through this agony. It is an internal conflict that no one else can help you with, and you have to figure it out for yourself.
There are many different reasons why you are experiencing this struggle, and only you can identify them. But it all boils down to one very difficult situation: your brain is battling with your heart.
It's not a literal battle, mind you. Here's where I try to help you out.
From my knowledge, I am aware that humans are made of different organs, included are the conflicting parts known as the brain and the heart.
The brain is in charge of your thoughts and actions, and all the heart does is pump blood.
For ages now, humans have associated their hearts with their emotions, and more importantly, the concept of love.
And when it comes to the great "Brain vs. Heart Battle" the brain is often treated as the villain, and that the heart has to conquer it.
The brain does more than just think and control our actions, it also takes into consideration all of the things about a potential human relationship, which sadly includes all the possible problems.
What are the things that could go wrong with this love? What could cause the end of this relationship?
Those are the questions we do not want answered, but we have to face anyway. And so, the conflict continues.
Observing the human anatomy, you will see that the heart and the brain is connected. One would not survive without the other. They both help you survive, so neither is the hero, nor the villain.
Love is no exception to this. It is a part of your organs' job description.
This so-called 'conflict' is just the brain and the heart doing their part in keeping you safe, unhurt, and alive.
You are only experiencing this because your love is so strong that it is threatening your existence.
The only way to find a solution is to identify the problems and find a healthy balance to it. You must find an answer that pleases both your heart and your mind in some way. There must be a way to compromise, because you need both organs to live.
Figuratively, you must answer all the questions your brain throws, while keeping your emotions controlled. And when you find the answers, you can pursue that love passionately; as intensely as your heart allows.
The balance of the heart and the brain is the only path to take. You must thread the realities of your relationship while keeping that dream of an eternal love alive.
With that I wish you the best of luck! Both your heart and your brain deserve to be happy. :)
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